Menu
  • About
    • Staff
  • Blog
  • Contact Us
  • Partners
  • Training Courses

NETUCATION Blog
Be Smart & Safe Online

Menu
  • Home
  • Contact Us

Blog

19Mar

Getting through to your kids in the digital age

webmaster March 19, 2013 Respond

How smartphones, family dinners, and admitting you don’t know everything can help you connect.

GETTY IMAGES/RADIUS IMAGES

THE YOUNG BOY with spiky blond hair lies in bed wearing football pajamas and staring at the miniature solar system hanging from his ceiling. His bearded father lies beside him, fielding a few questions before turning out the lights.

“How far away is Mars?” the boy asks.

“Well, it’s 141 million miles from the sun,” the father replies soothingly, “so, pretty far.”

“Why is it red?” the boy continues, keeping his eyes fixed on the fourth planet dangling from the ceiling.

“Because its surface is made of iron oxide.”

“Why do they call it Mars?”

“Well, it was named after the Roman god of war.”

The boy flashes a slight, admiring smile. “You’re so smart, Dad.”

Then the camera pulls back to show something that had been out of view: the slim tablet computer resting on the dad’s outer thigh. Slyly, he taps it to bring up the next Google results page before asking his son, “Did I ever tell you about Jupiter?”

This 30-second spot for the Google Search app delivers a warm feeling of parental engagement and confidence?—?if not candor. But it masks an intriguing question. In this mobile era, when the answer to nearly every question lies a few taps away, just what are we as parents supposed to know?

ISTOCK

My mother likes to tell the story of how her father?—?an exacting, self-educated trolley driver for the T?—?would regularly interrupt mealtimes by pointing to the large map hanging in their kitchen and expecting her to recall the name of a certain mountain rising above Montana or some river cutting through Tennessee. He had committed all the answers to memory the old-fashioned way. I can only imagine the disgust he would have felt for that bearded father trying to play sage while surreptitiously tapping the tablet at his thigh.

Times, of course, have changed radically since my mother was a kid in the middle of the last century. They’ve even changed considerably since the oldest of my three children was just getting going at the start of this century, when finding an answer still involved padding over to our den to call up Google on the desktop. Now even my youngest daughter, who’s in the second grade, can fact-check anything I say with a swipe on my iPhone.

Will this instant access to all manner of information end up clarifying our role as parents, freeing us from having to supply lots of facts and allowing us to focus on providing wisdom? Or, because our kids are far more adept at tapping and swiping than we are, will it chip away at our sense of parental authority? In other words, will it make us lighter, or simply lightweights?

Click here to read the full article

source: The Boston Globe / Neil Swidey

Share:

  • Email
  • WhatsApp
  • Facebook
  • LinkedIn
  • Reddit
  • Twitter

Google Ads




← Previous Next →

Featured Professor

How smartphones, family dinners, and admitting you don’t know everything can help you connect.

[caption id="" align="alignnone" width="260...

Read more

Hours & Info

88 Xavier Street
Robertsham
Johannesburg
2091
+27 011 210 3900
help@netucation.co.za
Dinner: Monday to Friday, 09h00 to 17h00
  • facebook

Recent Comments

  • malerato sekha on Contact Us
  • Trevor Watkins on Baby’s privacy exposed on LinkedIn
  • Ramon Thomas on Contact Us
  • Thandokazi yawa on Contact Us
  • Webmaster Nisha on Why Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg wants school kids to learn coding

Copyright © 2021 NETUCATION Blog.

Powered by WordPress, Supreme, and EducationAcademy.

loading Cancel
Post was not sent - check your email addresses!
Email check failed, please try again
Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email.